Posts Tagged ‘friendship’

I’m taking advantage of the new year energy and setting my intentions for my 2011 experiences.  These new energies feel quite potent to me, and such a refreshing release from the energies of the past six months.

I’m fortunate to share connections with many intuitive friends and colleagues in my local area and all of us have felt a certain degree of stress, frustration or strain towards the last months of 2010.  The mercury retrograde cycles were intensely effecting communications, while the recent Venus-in-retrograde cycle of October-November, sent me into a pattern of withdrawal and reflection.  I and others also felt the very intense energies surrounding our recent elections, and the negativity generated from the campaigning leading up to the November elections.  Most of the time I felt physically tired, very protective of my own space and energy, and reserved in my abilities to connect and share myself in the larger world.  In a word, I felt constrained on many levels.

Things would have been much more difficult for me if I had not had like-minded (and dare I say, like-energied) friends to share with.  Most of all friends who were experiencing similar responses.  By knowing that I was not alone, I was able to surrender to the energy patterns, move inward to do the deeper work at hand, and just weather this storm.  By getting acknowledgement that I was not the only one experiencing the turbulent energy shifts, I was able to let go and surrender to the lessons these shifts had to offer me.

I’ve found surrender must occur before I can connect with any deeper insights or lessons.  If I’m experiencing stress or struggle of any kind, and I choose to keep trying to force my will, or my limited view of resolution, I only create my struggle within myself.  But the minute I literally choose to surrender to the universe, acknowledging that a higher power is wiser than I, I immediately feel relief.  And to my surprise, that’s when solutions, answers and insights appear.  I have experienced this over and over again.  And each time I think, “I can’t believe how I knew better than to participate in struggle again.”  But I obviously need those reminders.

We all have this experience and, I’m hoping that many of us begin to choose surrender within the struggles.  If you cannot find the answers or solutions you think you need, stop, take a breath and just make some kind of acknowledgement that there is a high source of wisdom and that you can tap into that.  Then truly let go and allow the connection between you and your Source to flow.

Messages and resolutions can often come from very unexpected places.  The universe has a sense of humor and so the way the solutions show up for us can be quite amusing.  Personally, I love it when some message or solution shows up for me with a little humor attached to it.

So I really recommend setting clear intentions for manifesting in 2011.  Take advantage of the new year energy, these few weeks of all planets going direct, and your own ability to co-create with the universe.  Take charge and dream.  Allow the old and out-moded energies to fall away and welcome in new energy.

Seeking support and sharing from friends who also participate in manifesting is really helpful. I do that all the time.  When I’m experiencing struggle, which I’ve developed an allergy to, I stop and surrender.  I’m intending to create new and better energies this year, with new and better stories and outcomes.  I hope that everyone will participate in their own conscious creation process and manifest the best for ourselves and our planet.

My support partners:

Carol Wheelock,  Feng Shui Vermont

Gretchen Hidell, intuitive astrologer, astro-update.blogspot.com

Carolyn Lewis, Wellspring Hypnotherapy,  www.kindinnervoice.com

Glenn and Cameron Broughton, Earth Spirit Conferences

Michele Knappi, Moonlight Gifts

Marna Ehrech, marnasmusings.blogspot.com

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I believe in stretching my birthday celebrations out for as long as possible.  When I was a little kid, of course that meant more cake and more presents.  These days I don’t need more cake and gifts, just time to enjoy with friends.  But okay…I do love the cake and gifts just the same.

On this birthday I received some of the most precious gifts of all.  The day started out with lots  of lovely sunny weather, and I took the opportunity to meditate on all the things I’m grateful for in my life.  I even said a prayer to my Mother who passed away when I was only five, and I said “Thanks Mom, for having me.”

Then a friend took me out for a little shopping and lunch, followed by numerous calls and visits from others to wish me happy birthday.  My home was filled with gorgeous spring flowers from our condo’s gardens and I enjoyed every minute of this.

Another friend called to ask about taking me to lunch and I had to say that I was already going out, but would love to do lunch some other time, if we could figure the calendar space.  She then gave me one of the best gifts and said, “There’s always space for you in our lives.”  Her words touched my heart so deeply and I thought to  myself, That’s exactly what I wanted for my birthday!!!!  To know that I matter and have connection with my loved ones is THE ultimate gift and blessing.

In these times of being busy, attached to our electronic devices, working long hours and attention taken completely over by other commitments, sometimes we forget to tend our friendships.  I’ve forgotten birthdays or missed opportunities to reach out or realized that I was not tuning into a friend’s needs.  I’ve also felt that sense of being forgotten when folks have been busy with their life commitments.  We can fall into these common pitfalls and patterns of busy-ness lifestyle.  So the gift of hearing those words “There’s always space for you in our lives” was absolutely amazing.

As if this was not enough, the gifts kept coming.  In the past several months I have found myself part of a group of lovely women, who are all students and friends of mine.  After almost six months of classes with me, we seemed to be in the process of forming a loose coven.  I say loose because I’m not into forming rigid structures or teaching dogma of Earth-based spirituality, preferring rather to give students the flexibility and space to explore as much or as little as they want.  This particular group of them has continued to stretch their branches to reach for the sky.  And now, to our delight and surprise we have a group that wants to continue and explore the spiritual practices together.

I knew they were hatching a little plot to celebrate my birthday, and it was not a surprise that they emailed me to say they were taking me out to dinner and there would be some sort of after dinner destination to be revealed later.  So we gathered at a lovely local Indian restaurant, and had a fabulous dinner.  Then it was time to head off to destination B which I accurately guessed was the Burlington Earth Clock on the waterfront of Lake Champlain.  This is a lovely stone circle set up by a local group that created this modern day stone circle on public land for people to enjoy and use.   The ring was set up by dowsers and planners who aligned the circle to the energies of the land and the solstices.  I’ve been in the ancient sites, and I was skeptical about this new version, but when I had the opportunity to go there with Glenn and Cameron Broughton this winter, I was surprised by its energy.  From time to time various celebrations and ceremonies to honor the Earth have been held there and this  has been attracting deeper connection with the land.  So for me it feels like a very young Stonehenge.

When my little women friends said they had a destination B in mind, I finally said, “oh, are we going to the Earth Clock?”  (That’s what happens when you try to keep secrets from a psychic.)  So we headed down to the waterfront and realized that none of them knew where this circle was located.  It was truly the blind leading the blind, and there was a lot of giggling going on about that one.  Plan C was improvised and they commandeered a picnic table at the nearby park to have a little ceremony and cake.  What followed was a second lovely birthday gift.

First, my girls lit some lovely incense, then a little candle.  All were beginning to giggle about all the various actions and choreography that was supposed to happen.  This was their first ceremony without my guidance.  Two of my girls stood before me with tree branches for what was described as a blessing of the branches for my birthday.  There were some lovely words of blessing spoken with silly dramatic emphasis; first by the Larch branch, then with the Maple branch which we weren’t exactly sure was really a maple.  Much more giggling ensued and I wasn’t sure if I was about to be flogged or blessed, but to my relief, just gentle tapping of the head and face with the branches occurred.  Then the singing of the birthday song, with tom-tom, harmony, rhythm and uproarious laughter.  We were all ready to either wet ourselves or burst open.  The laughter kept up through the presentation of gifts and the consumption of delicious cake, and I’m sure that passersby thought we were all drunk.  None of us were intoxicated by anything stronger than the joy of celebration.  The gift of sharing laughter and silliness is awesome!

Those were the best gifts I could have had.  I have to say that the items I was given this year are wonderful too, and I do love to give and receive gifts.  But the very best gifts really are the love and caring, and uproarious, raucous joy shared with others.

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